At first glance, emotional authenticity and emotional consistency are contrasting concepts. When we pursue authenticity, we lean into how we are really doing and what we are really feeling. And obviously, in life, this fluctuates. If we acknowledge that our emotions change, and consistency means staying the same, how can we be both, authentic and…
Parenting
Consistency Strengthens Kids’ Security – How About the Parents’?
Consistency is a core quality of parenting, but it’s important for the relational health of parents, too. We’ve all heard the parenting advice many times over, “whatever you do, be consistent!” Many families take this to heart and strive for some consistency in their homes (consistency in things like expectations, consequences, responsibilities, and daily routines)….
Is it Really Unity When We ‘Agree to Disagree?’
“Let’s change and do some powerful thingsUnity could be a wonderful thing.” Black Eyed Peas, Union Is it really unity when the best outcome we can reach is to ‘agree to disagree?’ It is important (and possible!) for parenting teammates to become united on decisions, even when we don’t see things the same. This sure…
Cultivate Meaningful Family Traditions – 10 Helpful Questions
When we cultivate meaningful family traditions, we nurture our unique family cultures! Being intentional about which rhythms we choose to carry on or create for our families is an important first step. Some memories are lasting and some are fleeting. Though we believe it’s the compounding effect of day-to-day moments that most significantly shapes our…
How to Manage Our Kids’ Creations, Crafts, Notes, & Drawings
“Who wants yesterday’s papers? Nobody in the world.” The Rolling Stones, Yesterday’s Papers Finding a way to manage our kids’ creations, crafts, notes, and drawings is a challenge – an adorable challenge! 😊 The amount of paper that moves through our home is … incredible. More than we could have ever imagined! Watching our kids…